And you thought that u know a lot about love? think again...

everybody is talking abt love. love love love, the world seems to revolved abt love. nobody survives without love.

everybody seems to suscribe to the trend of falling in love- common, its the big WOOHAA~~ wow~~ its love we are talking abt? dats so cool~~ lets get hippy and get ourselves some love~~

... =.=" ... so dats love? or i would call it merely idolism of love.

nearly half of those who struggles along the border of love relationships dont know what they are doing. these ppl just irresponsibly and tiredlessly spam the once magical words "I LOVE YOU" just like how those internet advertisers flood your mailboxes. its doesnt take much significant efforts to say the line, just some movements of your lips and the voicecords, but does it really come from the btm of their hearts? i doubt so.

ppl just cant wait to fall in love. to an extend, some of which hypnotised themselved that they are in love when they successfully find an eligible target. "dis girl/guy is cute, should be a good choice for a relationship" then they keep telling themselves,"im in love, im in love, IM IN LOVE", to convince themselves that they are truely in love... and next, they start telling ppl that they are in love with whoever.
dis love is so superficial and artificial. Its like the love is produced, rather than destined, just like how factories manufacture products.

everybody loves to poss himself as the all-time saint romantic lover. dat reminds me of "Orsino" from "12th Night".
-"If music be the food of love, give me excess of it..."
For some reasons, we human beings some times love to wallow in self-pity, languish in unrequited loves and being self-indulgent in melancholy.
we poss ourselves as the devoted lover, crying out "i love you" to the locked target. the mentality is dat:

1: its somehow presents one as being a sacred lover. it condecends the person and make him feel superior cos love has always been highly regared as a paramount bond between living things. its superior, its sacred, its holy. all who possess it will escalate his status to above others.
it makes one special. and what everybody want? yes!!! to be special.

2: it draws special attention on you. life is always boring. we all carry out our mundane daily activities like going to school or work, eat, slp... everyone is busy with own lives and everyone is worn out by the routinary orders that sometimes we cant be bothered with other ppl's well-beings.
but everybody needs attention. funny enough that this desire to be in the limelight in inversely proportional with how much attention is given to you- the more attention is put on you, the more you want to be given freedom and to be left alone for some privacy. BUT the less attention is given to you, all the more desperate you would want to beg for ppl to focus their interest on you!!!
as i said, everyone is contempted with his daily routines. However love, on the other hand, is different. and im talking specifically abt couple love. in dis capitalistic society, where everything revolves around money, human sentiments are often neglected. its un-arguably that there is a void of love across the earth. somebody being in love and everything about his love from courtship, progress and lasting seems to be a perfect topic of interest to drive away our boredom. cos its uncommon, that why we want to know more abt the existence of love stories.
and dat leads to how somebody who is desperate for attention would create a story of himself being in love to draw interest in him. "im in love, im in love" just find a way to pass dis msg to others and the next thing to take place is ppl are talking abt you and ur love story and asking you how is you love... instant rise to stardom huh? WHO WANTS TO BE THE NEXT CELEBRITY???

3: It makes ppl respect you for your devotion in love, despite grounding setbacks. you can impress others with your determinations to press on that self-proclaimed love and gain respect from others, as well as their concern and sympathy.

all of what i have said above has shown that these so-called love arose from one motivation to gain personal selfish interest. everything in the hollered love is abt you, you, and you. its all abt your in your heart. everything u do regarding that holy love is based on self-interest.

ppl are just hanging the "I LOVE YOU" around their lips like they have nothing else better to do. how many have actually done something to prove or to show their love, non-verbally?

most of these self-claimed devoted lovers are actually just like Orsini, talk abt love all day long, but no actions. love is not abt words they should understand. spending most of their time passing out the msg verbally and having nothing done is evident enough to prove that your loves are ingenuine. true love is not to be said and heard by the ears, but shown through actions to be felt by heart... say and say and say, only received by the ears, where is the heart, the most impt organ of love, involved?

the special-ness of love has eroded with everyone citing "I LOVE YOU" anytime anywhere and sometimes, to anyone. its being ranted and echoes too frequently that it has worn its effect as the magic word to express one's heart-felt feelings and to touch another person's heart. its so cliche.
common, everyone is talking abt love, chanting "I LOVE YOU" like a free-time catch-phrase. how special will you feel when another person tells it to you? you have already heard umteen times of it, does it still create the powerful impact on you when u hear it again?
it sounds so cliche.
to me, its just another naive fellow blindly suscribing to the idea of all-mighty-verbal-love.
whatever~~ i dont buy dat

Love is a simple thing, its human beings who make it complicated, cos we want something out of love...